Couples Retro Support
Something not working, or a question about your board or subscription? Email us at support@aestheticallypleasing.app.
Include your Support Code
It helps us find your account straight away. In the app, open Settings > Support, tap Copy Support Code, and paste it into your email. You can also tap Get Support there to start an email to us.
Common questions
My partner's invite code says it doesn't match a board
Check the code with your partner letter by letter: it's 8 characters, shown in the app as two groups of four. Codes change when the owner taps New Code, so ask the owner for the current one (it's in the partner row at the top of Settings), or have them send the invite link instead, which fills the code in for you. If it still fails, make sure you both have the latest version from the App Store.
It says the board already has two people on it
A board holds exactly two people. If your partner's board shows someone else, or an old account, the owner can remove that person from the partner row at the top of Settings and share the new code. If it says you're already on a board, leave or delete that board first, then join with the new code.
Our notes are still sealed
Notes open for both of you at the reveal time in Settings > Ritual > Reveal, not before. Check the day and time there, and make sure both phones have an internet connection when the time comes. If the time has passed and the board still won't open, close and reopen the app, then email us with your Support Code.
I can't add notes because the owner needs a subscription
Writing notes needs the board owner to have Couples Retro Pro. The partner joins free. If the owner has already subscribed, they can tap Restore Purchases in Settings while signed in with the same Apple ID they bought it with.
How do I restore my purchase?
Open Settings in Couples Retro and tap Restore Purchases. Use the same Apple ID that made the purchase. Restore Purchases is shown to the board owner, since the owner's subscription covers both of you.
How do I cancel my subscription?
Subscriptions are managed by Apple. On your iPhone, open Settings, tap your name, then Subscriptions, choose Couples Retro and tap Cancel Subscription. Cancel at least 24 hours before the renewal date to avoid the next charge. Deleting the app or your account does not cancel it.
How do I change our reveal day or time?
Go to Settings > Ritual. Choose weekly or end of month under Cadence, then tap Reveal to set the day and time. Both of you see the same schedule.
How do I delete my account?
In the app, go to Settings > Delete Account and confirm. If you own the board, this deletes the board and every note for both of you. If you joined a partner's board, it deletes your account and the notes you wrote. You can also email us. More about deleting your account.
I'm not getting reminders
Reminders are set in Settings > Notifications: Nudge Before Reveal, and Board Opens. If the app says notifications are off, tap Allow Notifications in Settings and turn them on for Couples Retro.
More help
- Questions about how Couples Retro works
- Privacy Policy
- Terms of Use, including subscription terms